You are worthy..

You are worthy of all you choose in this life. Often we can miss out on what we really want becauase we may not feel worhty of it. We can tend to put ourselves down and not value ourselves to cause opportunities to walk right on by. It doesn't have to be that way... you are worthy of anything you choose and you are valuable. So how do you increase your self worth? You take a pen and write 100 ways you are worthy of everything you ever wanted. You will begin to see that you can do whatever you choose and step by step achieve your goals. Obstacles come along and that's the nature of the growing business. So when you come across them, take out your list of worthiness and you will begin to know that everything is steering you in the perfect direction. There is no such thing as sabotage, the things that are meant to be in your experience will find their way there no matter what!

Unconditional Love...

Often in life we place conditions on others and expect them to live by our values... what if everyone has their own set of values and the most powerful thing to do is allow each and every person to live by their values. Do you find yourself judging others for the way they look, the things they do, or don't do? What about yourself? Do you judge yourself for all those things? You wouldn't be human if you weren't judging things, it's how you choose to deal with that judgement that counts. Some people beat themselves up or ridicule others. Unconditional love is when you can love all aspects of another human being and the world putting all judgement aside, to just be. The only person harmed by judgement is you no matter whether judging yourself or others. You have to live with yourself so what are you going to choose to do? What if you could love the positive and negative in others? How would your life be different?

Fair Exchange...

Fair exchange is when there is a equal exchange for your services. So often as women who are wanting to please we can give our services away and be altruistic. This means that you can make things all about everyone else's needs and forget your own. Then the pendulum swings and you become narcissistic which means everything becomes all about your own needs and you forget about others. There is a balance and you can find that balance if you simply know and are congruent with your own self worth and your own true value. What value do you offer the world? Know that you are worthy of anything you choose. What hourly rate do you authentically want to charge to know that you aren't being altruistic or narcissistic. To know you are being that beautiful feminine being who is shining your light for the world to see because you are in alignment with what you are charging. You are worthy and valuable so be honest with yourself.

Nothing to Gain, Nothing to Lose

All human beings have all traits. Nothing is ever missing. There is nothing to gain and nothing to lose. For every person that wants your services there is one who doesn’t and for every person who doesn’t want your services or you there is one who does. Often in life and business we can feel the pain of loss and rejection if someone doesn’t want what we have to offer. You can choose to look at that in the negative or you can choose to see that for the person who did reject you there is someone who has accepted you. Should you choose to believe this then this is what is real for you and what will manifest into your experience. To know there is no gain or loss you begin to understand that there is a divine order in the universe that causes things to be as they are meant to be. Everything is just perfect the way it is and for every time you try to control the divine order you find yourself at a perfect place to then learn to let go. Allow the divine order to take control and for you to let go and let God. That is where your miracles lay and that is where you are most attractive.

Basic Needs...

Do you take care of your basic needs or do you put the needs of others before you?? Sometimes in life we are so busy taking care of everyone and everything else that we can forget to take care of our own needs and have boundaries to ensure that we are the best version of ourselves. What are your basic needs? What is it that you need to have, be or do in your life so you fill full and overflowing? Often we think that we are serving others by putting them first, but the news is that you only serve others if you serve yourself first, if you take care of yourself first. This is not the green light to be selfish, it is the red light to stop having empty tanks and start having full energy tanks so you can really and trully give to others. You will find when you know what your needs are and have boundaries to ensure that your needs are met you will have more energy, time and money to do the things that are important to you and you are able to be truly of service!

Self Worth

Do you feel worthy of the things you really want in life? What if you could just KNOW you are worthy of everything you ever wanted? What would your life be like? How would you be spiritually, in your relationships, family, physically, financially, career and mindset? What would things be like for you were you to know on every level that you deserve success and a balanced life?

Worthiness is simply something that you create for yourself. It is a state of being and beginning by making the decision that you are worthy. Think of something you feel or think you are unworthy of? Take out your pen and write 50 ways in which you are worthy of that thing. Notice how you feel, what you are saying to yourself and who you become as you gradually become grateful for you and who you truly are!

Values

We all have them and live by them. Whose do you live by? Other's or your own? Sometimes we can want to be like others and inject their values into our own lives to then find ourselves being like or mimicing someone else. What about you? What about your true values and your true value!! It's in being yourself and loving yourself for who you really are, what is naturally important to you and noticing where you spend most of your time, money and energy. How do you know what your true values are?

You pay attention to where you spend your money? Where do you spend your time? Where do you spend your energy and where are you most organised? These are the areas that are highest on your values. Sometimes we can delude ourselves and think something is high on our values when it just isn't. You can think about it, imagine it and push toward it as much as you like but that's doesn't change your true values. You manifest your true values and that is your true value.

So what if you want to make something more important to you?

You link your values... by asking yourself how a lower value will contribute to a higher value and do that 50 - 100 times. Keep going until you are grateful and the void has been filled. Meaning that you are so grateful you feel asif you have it now.

Enjoy!!!