Gossip...

Speak only to the person who can do something about it!! Sometimes when things don't go your way you can tend to turn to others to talk about someone behind their back. Know that if you do that, you only create that in your life. You only attract gossip about you! When you have something to say about someone, say it to them. I know, it may be a little scary but the best thing you can do for yourself and for others is to take the higher road. It is to speak only to the person who can do something about it. If all you do is gossip, you don't give the person who you are gossiping about the chance to make changes in thier life toward what they want. Or you don't allow them to be aware of their behaviour. So in the future, before you go to gossip about someone, have a think about what it is you could do instead.